What is friendly fraud?

In short

Friendly fraud is a dispute raised by the genuine cardholder over a payment that the cardholder, or someone in the household, in fact made and received value for. Friendly fraud reaches the merchant as a fraud or service chargeback like any other, which makes it hard to tell from true fraud by a stranger.

Also called
First-party fraud, First-party misuse, Chargeback fraud
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Fraud and disputes
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How friendly fraud happens

Not all of it is dishonest, and the issuer usually cannot tell which kind it is. Common causes:

  • A billing descriptor the cardholder does not recognise
  • A purchase by a child or partner on a saved card
  • A forgotten subscription renewal, or a free trial that converted
  • Using the bank's dispute button instead of asking the merchant for a refund
  • Buyer's remorse, or a delivery that was slow but did arrive
  • Deliberate abuse: keeping the goods and claiming the money back

How the card schemes address friendly fraud

Both large schemes let merchants answer with proof of a prior relationship. Visa's Compelling Evidence 3.0, in effect since April 2023, makes a card-not-present fraud dispute invalid when earlier purchases by the same cardholder match on data such as device ID and IP address. Mastercard's First-Party Trust programme shifts liability for the dispute to the issuer when a merchant provides compelling evidence, and Mastercard's site says the programme has launched in the US.

Tools that show purchase details in the banking app, such as Order Insight and Ethoca Consumer Clarity, aim earlier, at the confusion that starts many of these disputes.

What reduces friendly fraud for a merchant

Clear descriptors, emailed receipts, easy cancellation and fast refunds remove the honest cases. For the rest, the defence is evidence: delivery confirmation, login and device records, usage logs for digital goods, and a history of earlier orders with no fraud reported.

Friendly fraud, true fraud or refund abuse?

True fraud
A criminal uses stolen card details, and the cardholder had no part in the purchase. Also called third-party fraud.
Refund abuse
False claims made to the merchant directly, such as an item not received, with no chargeback involved.

Where Friendly fraud shows up in a platform

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Where it is written

The laws and standards this page's facts come from.

General information, not legal advice: what applies to you depends on your services and your market.

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